GOLD NUGGETS 1

GOLD NUGGETS 1

By

Tommy Franks, Ph.D.

Copyright © 2007 Tommy Franks
All rights reserved.
Printed in the United States of America.
All rights reserved under International Copyright Law.
International Standard Book Number: 0‑926044‑55‑9

Contents and/or cover may not be reproduced in whole or in part in any form without the express written consent of the Publisher.
Unless otherwise indicated, all Scripture quotations are taken from the KINGS JAMES VERSION of the Bible.

Due to the Author's prerogative, some words are in small letters and some are capitalized for clarity and emphasis and not necessarily in accordance with standard grammatical practice.

Whenever pronouns or gender references appear in this book, they refer to both male and female unless otherwise noted.

Second Printing 2007


DEDICATION

I dedicate this book "GOLD NUGGETS 1" to my darling wife Karen, lovely family, friends, and all who read it.

A special note: My family is very SPECIAL to me. They know me and still love me. We have always been a close knit family with a passion for living. We believe in having mercy, love, and patience for others. None of us are perfect. We are under construction. We believe in God, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit. May warmth and excitement come to you and your family as you read this inspiring book "Gold Nuggets 1".

INTRODUCTION

Many of you have read my books in the past. To all of you, I say "thanks". This book will make you think, laugh, cry, and rejoice as you meditate upon its messages of gold.

Our Maker God Almighty has given us so much in such a short time on Planet Earth. I want to share some of my life, pain, agony, joy, enthusiasm, ecstasy, and bliss with you in the next few minutes as you peruse some of the stories in this edition.

Relax, get in a comfortable place, kick your feet back...perhaps with a cup of coffee or hot tea, and enjoy yourself with this inspiring publication. Perhaps, after reading it, you might have a story or two that you want told and placed in print. If that is the case, contact me at my Blog address. Thanks for your interest.

First Words

Why this book "Gold Nuggets"? Well, all through my life, I have experienced a multitude of interesting stories that are heart touching...some joyful, some humorous, some exciting, and some tearful. I thought, "What better way of sharing my life journeys with others than to edit, record, and publish these short stories, anecdotes, accounts, and chronicles."

Additional purpose: I believe that every single person on Planet Earth is special and has dignity and great worth. You have intelligence. You have the five senses, intellect, emotions, desires, ambitions, and initiative. You are spirit. The real person inside you is spirit. This is the only way you can communicate with God, your Creator. Even though man lives in a body, he communicates with his soul and spirit. Therefore, this book will speak to your spirit as well as your soul.

Therefore, read and enjoy the travels and journeys that you will experience, encounter, and feel during this fabulous and exciting excursion.

In brief, it is no accident that you are reading this book. God's will for you is that you prosper, be in good health, and have healthy emotions in every area of your life. This book "Gold Nuggets" will assist you in the area of virtual reality and quality living.

THE GOLD PROSPECTOR's ATTITUDE

The longer I LIVE, the more I realize the importance of having a Positive Attitude. Attitude is more significant than so called facts. Attitude is more meaningful than the past, educational level, money, resources, circumstances, failures, successes, what we think, or what other people think...say...or do.

Attitude is more substantial than mere appearances, giftedness, skills, or talents. If you do not believe me, look at companies that have folded in the past few years. Attitude will make or break a company...corporation...home...or... church. The remarkable thing is we have a choice. We can complain and be negative or we can embrace a good attitude and go forward. We do not have to be melancholy or despondent.

None of us can change the place, date, or circumstances in which we were born into this world. Neither can we change our past. People will act or respond in certain ways. We cannot change the inevitable. HOWEVER, we can change our attitudes to be receptive and responsive in a positive manner. Personally, I believe that life is 10% of what happens to us and 90% of how we respond to it. Who is in charge of your life? Who is in charge of your attitude? Is it your spouse...your parents...your children? No! It is you. It is I.

Someone once said, "A company may spread itself over the whole world, may employ thousands of men and women, yet the average person will form an opinion of the company THROUGH THE CONTACT WITH ONE INDIVIDUAL. If that person is rude or inefficient, it will require a lot of courtesy and efficiency to overcome the bad impression. EVERY member of an organization is a salesperson. The first impression that is made is an advertisement...good or bad."

So as you can see, ATTITUDE is so very important, consequential, and significant to all of us, especially as we interact, mingle, socialize, and mix with others.

DARE TO BELIEVE in YOURSELF

God prepared Heaven for YOU from the foundation of the world. God knows you, your ways, your thoughts, your words, and every hair on your head. You could be like me...with no hair. God made you special! He formed your inward parts while you were in your mother's womb. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. God fashioned you, designed you, appointed you, and brought you into this world. You are marvelously and incredibly made. You are the ONLY you. You are made of water, fluid, calcium, iron, carbon, lime, fiber, and other tissue. You have 263 bones, 970 miles of blood vessels, 20,000 hairs in your ears alone. You have 10 million nerves and nerve endings, 600 million air cells in your lungs. Your heart beats 4200 times an hour and pumps 24,000 pounds of blood every 24 Hours.

Even when you were only an embryo, you were on the mind of God. You are the "apple" of His eye. You are the BEST product that heaven ever produced. According to the Good Book, God has even written a book about you which contains all the days of your life. God planned each of your days before you were born. You are special to Him!

DARE TO BELIEVE in YOURSELF. God does. Perhaps, instead of being a teacher, maybe God wants you to open a school. Instead of being a clerk, perhaps He wants you to own the store. Instead of being a doorman, maybe God wants you to buy the hotel.

God has confidence in YOU! This may be difficult for you to fathom, but it is true. Your POTENTIAL is determined by God, not circumstances or other people. When God created vegetation, He spoke to the earth (dirt) and it was so. When God made the stars, He spoke to the sky (firmament or second heaven) and it was so. When God wanted fish, He spoke to the waters. When He created animals, He spoke to the earth (land, dirt, soil). But when He created Man, He spoke to Himself. He said, "Let Us make man in Our Image." We are created to be like God...not God, but to be like Him (soul, spirit, body). We need to use our God given talents, abilities, and the POTENTIAL that God has instilled within us! Dare to believe in yourself. You were created to soar with eagles and to live in abundance.

WE MAY BE TOO BUSY!

Sometimes, we as human beings get too busy to really appreciate the finer things and finer people in our lives...and that's not good. That's BAD. But we're not bad people...just busy people. Therefore, before another moment passes, go to someone that you truly appreciate and express your true feelings to them. Most human beings are selfish in one way or another. That's why we need to develop tender hearts toward others. We need to take the time to express our love, our concerns, and our gratitude to them.

Another thing, our future looks very bright ahead because we are children of the Light getting brighter and brighter! Our most beautiful and productive years lie ahead of us.

Make someone happy today by sharing with them something positive and edifying that will motivate them to higher ground! If they are happy, be happy with them. If they are excited, be excited with them. We may be only earthen vessels, but we are filled with God's abilities and His Spirit. We're not perfect ...just forgiven! As we get older, our relationships with others will mature in different ways. You become sweeter with age! Look in the mirror and say, "You're a fine piece of work. You're a tremendous person to get to know!"

Take time to ENJOY life. Don't let it pass you by so quickly. Life is precious. Call a friend today. Go for a brisk walk. Get involved in helping others. Cook a special meal for a loved one. Go shopping with a close friend. Slow down and really live! In a hundred years from now, what will be important to you?

SOMEBODY LOVES YOU INCREDIBLY

Somebody loves you MORE than you will ever KNOW.
Somebody is always thinking of you wherever you go.
Somebody really and truly cares.
Somebody loves you beyond compare.
And is concerned about every aspect of your welfare!
Never doubt for a moment that you are in His prayers.

You are a rare TREASURE and a tremendous FIND.
Do not waste anymore time,
In getting to know Him during your prime.
So please believe me when I say,
"Somebody loves you incredibly today."
And that somebody is Jesus Christ ALWAYS!

MORE ON ATTITUDE

Being leaders, as we display positive attitudes, positive things will happen. The single most IMPORTANT ingredient to success today is a Positive Attitude. Look at the following poem:

YOU CAN DO IT TOO!
Don't you dare say "can't". You can do it, too!
Never give up. You can do it, too!
Remember the good times. You can do it, too!
Don't worry about the small stuff. You can do it, too!
Life can be so beautiful. Why? Because you are in it!
Especially now, because excitement is in the air!
Life is too short to be sad, uneventful, and boring.
A lovely rainbow always comes after the rain. The sun follows.
Therefore, when you feel like you are defeated,
Think positive. You can do it, too!
Be persistent. Be tough. Don't you dare give up!
You can be successful. It's up to you. Yes, you can do it, too!

Expect SUCCESS.
It will come. After all, you are the BEST PRODUCT that heaven has ever produced. YOU are SPECIAL to God and to others. You are special to your children or grandchildren. You are special to your friends and you should feel special to yourself. WHY? Because it's true! You have inside qualities of confidence, determination, character, goodness, and the anointing of God. You also have perseverance and determination.

You are a person of dreams, visions, hope, faith, and a person of commitment. Believe. Be positive! You bring out the best in other people. You bring out the best in your family. You have talents and special God given abilities. You are making a difference in other people's lives. WHY? Because you are a special creation made to succeed in life. Have you known adversity? Yes. Do you let that stop you? No. You have used adversity as stepping stones. YES. You are SPECIAL indeed.

At times in my own life, I have vacillated, oscillated, wavered, equivocated, hesitated, and faltered. Other times, I have been indecisive, evasive, wobbly, swaying back and forth like a pendulum, even shilly‑shallying; however, that only proves my point. Even though I am strong at times, I'm still a member of the human race. That's why I so desperately need to lean on the Lord at all times so that I can be successful. If I were perfect, I would be in heaven. We are all under construction!

SPECIAL WORDS JUST FOR YOU

IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR THE SUN TO STOP SHINING.
IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR THE MOON TO STOP REFLECTING.
IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR THE OCEANS TO DRY UP.
IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR THE WIND TO STOP BLOWING.
IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR A LITTLE BABY NOT TO CRY.
IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR THE SINGING BIRDS NOT TO FLY.
IT'S JUST IMPOSSIBLE FOR THE WORLD TO STOP TURNING.
AND IT'S SIMPLY JUST IMPOSSIBLE FOR US TO LIVE WITHOUT GOD'S SWEET LOVE, WARMTH, CARE, KINDNESS, AND THE LITTLE THINGS THAT
HE DOES FOR US BECAUSE HE LOVES US!

IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR THE TIME TO GO BACKWARDS.
IT'S JUST IMPOSSIBLE FOR HIM NOT TO THINK OF US CONTINUOUSLY.
IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR US TO GO ON WITHOUT HIM.
IT'S IMPOSSIBLE NOT TO GET EXCITED WHEN WE HEAR HIS TENDER VOICE.
IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR US NOT TO LOVE HIM.
IT'S JUST IMPOSSIBLE FOR US TO THINK OF A WORLD WITHOUT HIM.
WHY? I WISH I COULD COMPLETELY EXPLAIN IT,
BUT THAT TOO IS JUST IMPOSSIBLE.
ALL I KNOW IS: HE LOVES YOU AND ME WITH ALL HIS HEART!
IT'S JUST IMPOSSIBLE FOR HIM TO DENY HIS CHILDREN!

TEAMWORK

Communication is the key that unlocks the door.
Through challenging TEAMWORK, our programs will soar.
Our objectives, mission, and forum, we'll explore.
We must set the tone for many improvements and more.
We must work together as never before.
A Diamond Friend is like gold ore.
The hotter the fire and the more you pour,
The Diamond seems to be refined and shouts, "Encore!"

With all the vendors, solicitors, auditors, and competitors,
Some may think that our work is nothing more...than a metaphor.
But let me echo the sounds from the distant corridor,
From the janitor to the doctor to the company store.
"You are an executor, a team player, and depositor.
Yes, you have pride, action, performance, and esprit de corps."
New technology, plans, programs are inevitable, we cannot ignore.
But with TEAMWORK and mutual respect, we'll build the store.
Forevermore!

THE HONEYBEE

The Honeybee lives in almost every part of the world. This particular insect has 3 pairs of legs and 4 wings. The female bee even has a stinger. The Honeybee is highly intelligent; produces honey and beeswax. The bee assists in pollinating plants, flowers, and blossoms. The farmer is highly dependent upon them for plant and blossom pollination. Bees live in colonies or beehives (up to 60,000 strong). These colonies can gather up to 15 pounds of nectar a day. The three kinds of Honeybees are as follows:

1. Worker (unmated female offspring of the queen): Lives from six weeks to several months. The Worker gathers pollen and nectar, cleans the hive, feeds other honey bees, makes wax, stands guard at the entrance of the hive, and hunts for food. It takes ten Workers to produce one pound of honey.

2. Drone (male offspring): Normally, there are a few hundred in each hive. His only function is to mate with the queen in another bee hive. The Drone cannot feed himself. His tongue is too short to get food; therefore, he is fed by the female worker. In the fall when food is scarce, the workers stop feeding the Drones. They drag them from the hive. They die.

3. Queen (only one in a hive): All other queen bees are killed or driven away. The Queen lays eggs. The Queen only needs to mate once. She then lays about one million eggs (2000 per day). She lives about five years.

The wings of the Honeybees move up, down, sideways, backwards, or they can hover in one place. Their flight muscles must be 86 degrees at all times while flying. Otherwise, they will crash. In the winter they cluster and shiver to keep warm. Bees have five eyes, but cannot focus very well because they have no pupils.

In summer they separate and create air channels between them. They gather water and sprinkle it throughout the hive. The water evaporates and cools the colony.

The Honeybee is a marvelous wonder and industrious creature. In the USA, they produce over 200 million pounds of honey each year and four million pounds of beeswax. Without their help in cross pollination, we would have almost no apples, oranges, pears, peaches, plums, and other tasty fruits. The Honeybee is a miracle of God! Don't you agree?

OUR ENEMY IS STUPID

Our enemy (satan) tried to get Jesus to succumb to temptation. He said, "If you be the Son of God...turn these stones into bread." But Jesus replied, "IT IS WRITTEN, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God."

Again, satan said, "If you be the Son of God...cast yourself down." JESUS responded, "It is written, you shall not tempt the Lord thy God."
The devil then said, "If you will fall down and worship me, I will give you the kingdoms of the world." JESUS said, "IT IS WRITTEN, you shall worship the Lord your God, and only Him shall you serve."

According to Isa. 14:12‑16, seven facts are recorded about lucifer the LOSER:

1. He was cast out of heaven.
2. He was cut down to the ground.
3. He said, "I will ascend into heaven."
· I will exalt my throne above the stars of God."
· I will sit upon the mount of the congregation."
· I will ascend above the heights of the clouds."
· I will be like the Most High."

The enemy (satan) will be cast into hell for 1000 years and then into the lake of fire forever. Satan and all of his forces were stripped of their power to kill, steal, and to destroy. Jesus took the keys of both death and hell from satan. HE did this in the devil's own living room (the pits of hell). The law was blotted out and the enemy had no further claim to hold man in sin and bondage. Christ made a show of them openly and publicly triumphing over them before all the devil's agents in hell and before all the righteous in paradise. The devil IS IN BIG TROUBLE. We as BELIEVERS must see the scoundrel as he really is...a total NINCOMPOOP and chief LOSER.

All power and glory have now been restored to Jesus who in turn has given us HIS power of attorney to carry on His work. Christ paid the penalty for man's sin. HE was made sin and HE was justified. Now, we are justified. HE became the First born from the dead. HE defeated the forces of darkness in hell. HE stripped them of all their authority and dominion over man. Jesus mastered death and conquered the grave. As the Son of God, He died like a lamb and arose as the LION OF JUDAH, THE HIGH PRIEST of the New Covenant. He carried His own blood into the Holy of Holies! Ain't God good?

YOU ARE GOD'S LILY!

YOU are not alone. YOU are one of God's Lilies growing in His flower garden. God loves Lilies because they are productive and beautiful. They come back year after year even after the long cold winter of adverse weather. They rise above the ground and blow freely in the gentle breeze with the warm sunshine upon their heads. There are several types of lilies: The water lily...the Easter lily...the Lily of the Valley...and the lily pad. I believe God sees us as His Easter Lilies. They are the first to bloom in early spring. Lilies are also flowers of character. In short, they are strong. They have an abundance of STRENGTH. They do not wilt or fall down when the tempest comes. They brave the storm and ride it out like an eagle rides out a hurricane.

The Easter Lily is especially aromatic (fragrant) with aroma that is pleasant to the sense of smell. In God's living bouquet of life, He loves to place His white (signifies purity) lilies in strategic areas in His well watered garden. He has placed YOU in an area where YOU can bloom and bloom. You are NOT alone. He has been there with you all the time. You have class. You have style. After all, your Father owns it all and wants to give it to you...simply because He loves you. You will never be alone again! You are His LILY!

THE SECRET

The SECRET: Why do things sometimes go wrong? Sometimes, bad things happen to good people. Listen to this. The old gentleman was now 88 years old. His father had died when he was five. He quit school at the age of 16. By the time he was 17, he had lost four jobs. He was married at 18 and became a father by the time he was 19. At 20, his wife left him and took their baby daughter with her. At 22, he was working as a railroad conductor, but failed miserably at this job too. He later tried to join the Army, but they kicked him out. Finally, he became a farmer and again failed. He applied for law school and was rejected. He became an insurance salesman and failed. This man...it seemed could do nothing right! Eventually, he became a cook and dishwasher in a little cafe.

He worked long hours and thought a lot about his wife and daughter. He grieved for them and begged his wife to return, but she refused. So he formulated a plan to kidnap his daughter. He waited outside in the bushes for seven days just waiting for the right time. The day came for him to execute his plan; however, that was the one day that she did not come outside. He even FAILED at committing a crime. He was the ultimate loser!

As time went on, he eventually convinced his wife to return home. They both worked in the tiny little restaurant cooking and washing dishes until he retired at the age of 65. He went to the Post Office and picked up his first social security check for the amount of $105.00. He went home feeling dejected, demoralized, discouraged, and completely worthless. Therefore, he came up with a plan: He would commit suicide. This old man went outside behind his house with a pencil and piece of paper to write his "last will and testament" prior to putting this last plan into action. While he was writing, he asked himself a question? What can I do? I have failed at everything. He thought, "I can cook. I have spent my entire life behind a hot stove. I can cook."

He then went to the bank and borrowed $87.00. He bought some empty boxes and several chickens; returned home and cooked the chickens with his special little recipe in which he had perfected over the years. He began selling chicken door to door in his hometown of Corbin, KY. The rest is history. At 65, he was a washed‑out failure headed for the poor house. At the age of 88 this Kentucky Colonel was a multi‑millionaire that could buy anything in the whole world. Even today, Kentucky Fried Chicken is still going strong. If you don't believe me, buy some. It's not over till it's over...and the sweet lady has not sung yet. Calvin Coolidge once said, "No person was ever honored for what he received. Honor is the reward for what he GAVE." So, what's the secret? GIVING. Colonel Sanders found the secret!

PRIORITIES OF A GOLD PROSPECTOR:
1. Stay Optimistic.
2. Set goals and meet them.
3. Be open to learning.
4. See the good in all.
5. Take responsibility for our own actions.
6. Never say...I should have.
7. Make the time.
8. Do what you say you will do.
9. Never, never, never give up.
10. Make a difference in the lives of others.
11. Give 110%.
12. Appreciate.
13. LOVE.

OUR COMFORT ZONES

You, my good neighbors, are very Special. In accordance with God's Word, you are gorgeous, stunning, dazzling, beautiful, and the Apple of God's eye. As I've said before, we all want something NEW. The whole world wants new things. In order to have something NEW, our comfort zone must be expanded to include the NEW thing. The bigger or greater the new thing, the greater the comfort zone must expand. Comfort zones are most often expanded through discomfort.

Being uncomfortable is part of the process of getting what we want or desire. We must learn to tolerate discomfort in order to grow. This is called the "grist mill" approach. When making flour in an old grist mill, it's necessary to add gravel to the wheat before grinding it. The gravel is known as "grist". The small stones (gravel) rub against the grain as the mill wheel passes over them. The friction causes the wheat to be ground into fine flour. If it was not for the grist, the wheat would only be crushed, but not refined into good usable and fresh flour. After this process, the grist is sifted out and only the good fine flour remains, thus the "grist mill" approach. And the joy comes, especially when you take that refined flour and bake a tasty, palatable, savory, HOT, delicious, flavorsome, and appetizing Dutch Apple Pie that only YOU can bake so deliciously.

BOTTOMLINE: When we want something worthwhile on Planet Earth, we must be prepared for grist (small pebbles) in our lives. However, they will sift out and be a non‑issue compared to the refinement that takes place in making us better individuals. To make perfume, the flower must be crushed. One thing that I have learned in life is this: "Treat a person as he is, and he will remain as he is. Treat a person as if he was what he could be and should be, and he will become what could be and should be...a winner."

"Far better it is to dare MIGHTY things, to WIN glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure...than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in the gray TWILIGHT that knows neither VICTORY nor defeat" (Theodore Roosevelt).

THE BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFLY

Personally, I believe that God's Kids ARE becoming VERY unselfish and are filled with caring sensitivity to others. God is constantly giving us considerable energy that is limitless.

Some things in this life are temporary, but God's LOVE for us is eternal. The butterfly that you see today use to be just a brown cocoon. That was then and this is now! Time and patience as valuable resources, paid off in large dividends to the multi‑colored silk winged butterfly. The cocoon weathered the storms, hail, rain, wind, fire, drought, and other elements. Nonetheless, today, it's a big beautiful diurnal Lepidopteron insect characterized by clubbed antennae, a slender body, and large brilliant colored wings. Who would have thought that only yesterday it was a fuzzy caterpillar made of wormlike larva that was the chief prey of many birds and bees? You, my fellow saint, have become this beautiful multi‑talented and brilliant butterfly.

Life is SWEET and ever so precious. Life goes on. You have become the victor and not the victim! Even with all the predators, invalidators, dominators, intimidators, manipulators, provocateurs, and accusators, you are still way AHEAD. WHY? Because you are a creation of God.

Even though, I have known great victory, I have also known great pain and failure. I have cried many a tear drop. I have laughed until I cried. I have seen the highest mountains. I have traveled the lowest valley. I have many hurts from great tragedies. I have known tremendous pain even by name. But one thing is for certain, Christ paid the price for all my sufferings. As Christians, we will continue to have feelings of passion, emotion, affection, zeal, great Love, merciful compassion, anger, and great joy. That's life. However, we are no longer cocoons, but exquisite, stunning, and attractive butterflies.

Ben Franklin once said, "We need to write our injuries in DUST and our benefits in MARBLE". We're no longer brown cocoons. We are now big, beautiful, multi‑colored, silk winged butterflies of great distinction and excellence.

PUSHING PEOPLE UP TO THEIR FULL POTENTIAL

We have an obligation and responsibility to people. We are the product of heaven, not earth. The body is earthy, but not the real person.

Today, most so‑called managers manage things; however, leaders LEAD people. Leaders help others achieve personal goals and their full potential in addition to moral standards. Leaders bring out the best in other people, especially their subordinates. LEADERS HELP OTHERS SUCCEED. Leaders assist others in reaching their destiny. I believe you are a leader.

Some so‑called managers often manipulate, coerce, intimidate, provocate, accusate, dominate, and castigate others...and normally for selfish gain. But LEADERS care. LEADERS have compassion. LEADERS never embarrass others. They go out of their way to ENCOURAGE people.

What am I saying? Leaders are rare. The world is looking for true leaders. I have confidence that America, Africa, Europe, and Asia will emerge with some genuine leaders before the end of this decade. Actually, you can count on it. The news is out. The die is cast. Leaders will come on the scene. We must be patient. It will happen. Let FREEDOM reign with PRIDE, PERFORMANCE, and PROFESSIONALISM!

Leaders know that words are POWERFUL. Words either bring a positive response or a negative response. Expect the very BEST of others and eventually you will get their best. No, it's not easy, especially when most people have low expectations of themselves. Life gives us whatever we will accept. If we accept failure, we will have plenty of it. But if we expect SUCCESS, it will come. If we accept mediocrity, we will never be more than average. WHO wants to be average? Life is too short to be unhappy, poor, defeated, and uneventful. Life is GOOD because God is good and He is the LIFE Giver! Today, be a part of pushing someone up to his/her full potential.

SANTA CLAUS

DO YOU believe in Santa Claus? DO YOU know where the term "Santa Claus" came from? Our forefathers were NOT as ignorant as some may think! As a matter of fact, they were honest, good, holy, repentant, and filled with compassion. In the fourth century A.D., a saint by the name of NICHOLAS (born in Lycia) began to give gifts to little children. St. Nicholas became the patron saint of sailors, travelers, bakers, merchants, and little children. He was Bishop of Myra in Lycia (Asia Minor). Many miracles are credited to him.

Europe still celebrates his death (6 Dec.) as a special holiday. Many of their men dress up and pose as St. Nicholas and visit little children giving them gifts.

Over the centuries, St. Nicholas evolved into Father Christmas in Germany and Protestant northern Europe. The Dutch settlers and their English neighbors brought the custom of St. Nicholas to America and transformed him into the KIND and JOLLY patron of American Christmas. "Sinterklaas" (Dutch for St. Nicholas) became known as Santa Claus (American for Sinterklaas). TODAY, it is a crying shame that most Christians do not KNOW where we got the idea of Santa Claus. By the way "Santa" means saint and holy.

I believe in the Santa Claus concept. Why? Because I am FOR KINDNESS, (especially to little children), COMPASSION, JOY, FUN, ABUNDANT LIVING, and the CHRISTMAS SPIRIT that St. Nicholas (Santa Claus) has given to the WHOLE WORLD. Isn't it just like a scrooge to start acting selfish in trying to take some of the JOY out of CHRISTMAS? During your next Christmas, please try to remember what Santa really means. I certainly WELCOME the kind spirit that encompassed St. Nicholas (Santa Claus). KINDNESS to little children is definitely of God! And ALL of us are children when it comes to CHRISTMAS! MERRY CHRISTMAS!

A LETTER TO MY BROTHER
Dear Brother,
You are not an unforgotten Franks Child. You are my brother. Your two brothers and five sisters down here on Earth truly love you. I know life and time for you began during World War II. The place was near Savannah, TN. Even though your journey began with humble beginnings, you are now Heaven's Child and God is very rich toward you. I know you're not sad or fretful because Heaven is a wonderful place. We do miss you though, especially since you checked out early...even before you got a name. Of course, I know they take real good care of you around there.

With all the angels, people, and angelic beings around there, I'm sure there's all kinds of excitement, enthusiasm, and love everywhere. One thing for sure, you're never really alone or lonely because God, family members, and friends are near.

Is time in Heaven much different than here on earth? Although you only lived on Planet Earth a few hours after birth, I'm certain you have met our lovely mother by now. Her name is Eva Bearden Franks. You probably see her every day. Have you found her to be a wonderful and holy woman and a sweet lady?

I have a feeling that you and Daddy Tony are also getting acquainted. Do you walk across the golden streets together? You will never be separated again!

Do you ever think about us? If so, please don't worry. We will be just fine. In so many ways, I envy you because I know there is absolutely no harm or danger anywhere on Planet Heaven. I'm confident it is so peaceful where you are.

Tell me something, Brother. Do you play, sing, and laugh a lot up there? One day, we will all come through those gates of pearl. And even though, we are not currently together with you, we know everything is going to be all right. We are on the winning team. All of us are predestined for greatness. We were born to live forever!

Do you walk with the King every day? I'm sure He is so sweet, kind, gentle, and full of love. By the way, did heaven ever give you a name? Do you sing in the heavenly choir or play an instrument in the orchestra?

I miss you, my Brother. Say a prayer for me. I love you.
Your brother,
Tommy

A LETTER TO MAMA
Dear Mom,
I wish that we would have had more time to spend together while you were here. But with all of us children (seven in all), you had to work a lot to keep food on the table and shoes on our little feet. There were a lot of things that I should have said while you were here, but I didn't...so, I'll say them now.

Mama, I want to say "Thank-you" for nursing me back to health and praying for me when both of my small arms and hands were burned to a dull black...the time I fell into the open fireplace. You called on your God to help and He heard you. And remember the time that you prayed for me while I was still in your womb. You asked for God's protection over me and even dedicated me to Him prior to my birth. Then, when I was eight years old, you stayed up with me all night, prayed, and cared for me because I had appendicitis. You prayed to your God. He intervened. Now, 27 years later, I am still well. Thank you.

Mama, I can remember you getting upset with us at times, but we always knew you loved us. I now have three children of my own. I do understand. Mama, I love you and I want you to forgive me for causing you pain and heartaches at times. Another time you saved my life. I was driving too fast. You told me to slow down. I did. Immediately afterwards, the right front tire exploded. Your request and warning saved our lives that day. Mama, thanks...I was too young to die!

The tears, sweat, blood, and agony that was given for us seven children was a great sacrifice on your part. I remember in 1953 while giving birth to my little sister (Lavonda), you almost died, but somehow God let you live a few more years on this planet. Yes, you shed many a tear drop for us, especially me. And I'll always be grateful to you for giving me life and sound moral principles. Mama, there were times that I was away from home a long time. You prayed for me. You bragged on me. Even when I was wrong, you encouraged me. Mama, I want to say one more thing...I miss you with all my heart. I look forward to seeing you again. Mama, tomorrow, I'll be 35 years old. What's that Mama? Yes, I do have tears in my eyes...and it feels good to cry because these tears are not tears of sorrow, but joy...the joy of having you for a mother.
With all my love,
Your son...Tommy

NOTE TO READERS: Now, don't get me wrong as I share this letter with you...one that I wrote on 28 Sep 81 to my Mom. I do not believe that we can communicate with the dead; however, for my own health and welfare, I wanted to write down some things that perhaps had never been said before...or had gone unsaid while she was living. Read the letter again before you prejudge me. Thanks.

A LETTER TO DADDY

Dear Dad,
This is just a note to let you know that your children (two sons and five daughters) still love you as always. I was reminiscing this morning and thought of the time that Betty and I arrived at the old home place one afternoon. We had only been in your presence for a few brief moments when you asked, "Have you had anything to eat? Are you hungry?"

We replied, "No, Dad...we are fine."
You said, "Well, let's have a cup of coffee then."

We went inside and coffee was served. Drinking coffee around the old home place became a family tradition for several years afterwards...until you decided to join Mama on the other side. One of these days, the coffee drinkers in the Franks' Family will once again sit down with you and have a cup of hot steaming coffee with a lot of excited conversation. So please keep the coffee pot on. OK?

Daddy, you were such an humble and compassionate man. You never put anyone else down. You always tried to see the best in everyone. Daddy, you gave us something that money can't buy. You gave us love and you would have given your life for anyone of us. As a matter of record...in a sense...you did. You worked hard everyday to put food on the table and clothes on our backs. I will always remember the times we had together. To look into your deep blue eyes was to see a picture of real genuine love. You were my first image of "what God must be like". Oh yes, I know that you were human too and made mistakes...but don't we all?

Daddy, I know that you and I have no direct communication now and some may think that this is a silly thing for me to be writing you; nonetheless, there is one axiom that is called the Equality Axiom which basically states this: You are in constant contact with your Maker. Mama is in constant contact with the same Maker. I am also in contact with my Maker and Lifegiver. Therefore, by the Equality Axiom, we still have something very much in common and faithful to us both...and will bring us back together again at the appointed time.

I know you feel right at home now. I'm sure your hearing and sight problems have been resolved. Daddy, do not fret or become overly concerned about your family because your sons and daughters are following right in your footsteps. And Dad, tell Mom and my older brother that I love them and one day, we will sit around the Franks' coffee pot have some real family fellowship.
With all my love,
Your son...Tommy

ANOTHER LETTER TO MAMA
Hello Mama,
I love you, Mama. Man can do a lot of things on this planet. He can invent. He can educate. He can visualize. But when it comes to making a MOM, only God can do that. Time (sometimes) is our enemy. That's why I want to say these things now to you, Mama...even though you are in heaven. Yes, I know we have no contact with those of you who have gone on to heaven, but somehow, I believe that God allows you to look in on us occasionally.

Mom, so many words are left unsaid...until it's too late. Does anyone really know why? We as children seem to hold them in our little hearts...and let the years go slipping by. While you were here, I probably never mentioned it very much...how thankful I was for you...being my Mom and all. There was so much I wanted to tell you, but life went by so fast...so very fast...and then you were gone!

I know even before my birth that you gave me to God. I did not know then how much you would be worth. By the very nature of your motherly attributes, all my basic needs were met. You cared for me, even though you did not know me yet. Is it too late now to thank you for so many precious things? Where do I begin? At night, you read me stories, poems, and the Good Book. You tucked me in so many times. And remember the time I was so sick and how you stood vigil at my bedside? When I was scared and afraid, you always made me feel secure, safe, and loved. You really cared! Mom, many times I was a pain in your backside...like the time I threw a long spiked spear‑like broom handle at a passing truck or the time I acted ugly and you almost destroyed the bathroom door to discipline me. I looked into your caring brown eyes and saw that I had caused you much pain.

You were right about so many things, but sometimes I wouldn't listen. After all, I was almost grown. I thought I knew better than you... only to find out later that my immaturity was evident. Tell me something, Mom. How is it that when I tried to sneak in a little white lie or half truth that you knew? Was it something in my eyes or the way I said it? I'm so sorry; however, I just did not understand at the time that your rules...were for my own protection. At times, I know you worried about me, especially when I was in the Air Force in France. You probably thought that I would be sent to Viet Nam one day. You prayed. I traveled. The Lord preserved.
I love you,
Your son...Tommy

3RD LETTER TO MAMA
Dear Mama,

Mom, today, I have children of my own. I believe you would be proud of them. No, they are not perfect...but they have a lot of you in them. You know, you always did enjoy the special holidays throughout the year. You made them so special for us. At Christmas, Dad would get the Christmas tree. You would get out the decorations. All of us would attempt to decorate the tree...and then Christmas Day would finally dawn...with such excitement. I remember one year, I received a BB gun. You were a little hesitant at first, but then you decided that I was responsible enough to use care and caution. Did I ever mention the time I shot holes in Tommy Thomas' bicycle tires? I guess not. Forgive me.

I've always loved you, Mama. When I get to heaven, we will sit down and talk about your grandkids. Well, just the other day, I really wanted to get a hold of your grandson, Tony. It was not enough for him to dilly‑dally with my expensive computer, but when he came home, he ran his Toyota truck right into the oak tree in the front yard. The tree was fine. No comment on his truck. As you know, I inherited part of your temper. I had to apologize later to Tony. He's only an overgrown teddy bear with a heart as big as the Grand Canyon. You would love him as he would you.

With that being said, if I could have one special wish in my whole life that would come true, this would be my wish: "That my children would love me as much as I have always loved you. Thanks Mom!"

I remember, you always wanted us to brush our teeth and wash our faces every single day. You wanted me to always wear clean underwear...just in case I was in an accident or something. You didn't want them to see me in dirty underwear. Thanks for all the times you bandaged me up when I would skin my knee or elbow or arm. You would always encourage me to keep going. And Mom, I want to thank you for all the times that you continued to help, even though you were so very tired...and didn't want anyone to know. Thanks for checking my pockets before you washed my jeans. Crayons, ink pens, candy, and bubba gum never helped our washing machine. Thanks for all the hugs you gave me...even the times that I didn't hug you back. Thanks for not telling Daddy about all the times I acted up. Thanks for being there for me and loving me with your special love as a Mom.
I love you,
Your son...Tommy

4TH LETTER TO MAMA
Dear Mama,

Mom, you taught me how to crawl...how to eat without your assistance...how to talk...walk...run. As I grew older, I learned how to ask why? Mama, why can't I go? Mama, why can't I stay the night? Mama, all the other kids are doing it. Why can't I? Why are you so strict? WHY? WHY? Mama, please give me some room to grow. "I'm almost grown now. I'll be eighteen soon. No, I'm tired of your advice. I don't need it anymore. Let me make my own mistakes. Mama, please! Let go of me. There are things I want to do...places to go...things to see. There are chances I must take."

Mama, you were right. How did you know? And not once did you ever say, "I told you so." You'd just smile and hug me close and sometimes say, "Son, one day you will understand when you have little children too." Therefore, Mama, I promise to always honor and respect you as I have no other because you are and will always be my mother. I promise that I will never forget all the things you've done for me...and how you've always been the heart of our family.

I remember when I was much younger how I thought we'd live forever on this earth as we had in the past. I never thought much about change. I never thought that you would check out as early as you did. My heart still aches when I think of the day you passed from Planet Earth to Heaven. Part of the pain is still present, but I know I'll see you in the near future. You'll be standing there with open arms and you'll say, "Tommy, my sweet boy, I love you my son. I prayed for you and Jesus has heard my prayer. Welcome home my child."

Change is inevitable and certain. My hair was once full, bright brown with a tint of red. Now, it's beginning to be thin and even showing a little gray. I'm not as strong as I once was. My pants are a little tighter now with a snug belly. I am my children's father now and my wife's husband and I'll always be your son. My constant prayer is that I will do all three justice and be the very best I can and never bring a reproach to you or to your name. And if/when the time comes for me to check out too, I'll be expecting a great big hug the moment I lay eyes on you...and Mama, remember all the writing you wanted to do. That desire was passed on to me. Thanks for being you and for being an Epistle of Christ that I could read with clarity and understanding.

I love you eternally,
Your son...Tommy

A STAR IS BORN
By Tommy Franks

The Good Lord took a star from the night
And in her eyes, He put much light.
She has great wisdom and understanding down here.
God's rainbow has touched her tears.
Karen has a special glow
That only God fully knows.
God conferred with Himself and thought awhile
And decided to give her warm sunshine for her smile.
He planted a beautiful bouquet of love in her heart
Where we could see and smell the aroma as a work of art.
The storms, rains, and windy weather have come
Only to find her a most delicious plum in Christendom.
God has blessed her with talents and abilities
That belong only to kings, queens, and royalty.
Thanks God. You have made my day.
My life is now easier along the way.

MY BEST FRIEND
By Tommy Franks

Our friendship is Special and Beautiful.
Our unique friendship is also intimate.
I can say that you are truly my best friend
Because I know that you are the one person
In whom I can always confide without being condemned
Or fear retribution.
My joys are her joys.
My pains are her pains.
My goals and aspirations
Are encouraged by this wonderful being…Karen.

Once upon a time, Robert Louis Stevenson said, "A friend is a present that you give yourself." Someone else by the name of Rabin Tagore said, "Depth of friendship does not depend upon length of acquaintance."

An old Russian proverb says, "A mere friend will agree, but a REAL Friend will argue". Samuel Taylor Coleridge said, "Love is flowerlike; Friendship is a sheltering tree."

Someone once said, "Friendship is like two clocks keeping time." With this being said, I know that Karen and I are like two world class Black Forest, Grandfather and Grandmother Clocks...that not only keep accurate time, but we are also in complete synchronization with our melodious and musical chimes.

"All men have their frailties; and whoever looks for a friend without imperfections will never find one. We love ourselves notwithstanding our faults, and we ought to love our friends in like manner" (Cyrus). Karen is such a good friend.

"There are many moments in friendship, as in LOVE, when silence is beyond words...(Friendship) should be dealt with delicately and tenderly, being as it is a sensitive plant and not a roadside thistle..." (Louise De La Ramee). One of the toughest things that I have had to learn in our friendship...is how to be tender and sensitive to Karen’s emotions, feelings, and ideas. Men must be strong and firm, yet also kind...gentle...sweet...and understanding. I am still under construction in these areas!

Mr. Arthur Schopenhauer once said, "Everybody's friend is nobody's." At first, I did not know what this meant, but throughout the years I have learned some things about people. The person that always tries to please everybody usually pleases nobody. Karen does her best in communicating with others; however, she has also learned that you cannot always please everyone. Her priorities in life are God, husband, children, grandchildren, and then other people and things. "A friend is one who knows all about you and still loves you just the same" (Elbert Hubbard).

Some people are of the school of thought that you do not have to verbalize your thoughts, friendship, or love to another. They believe that friendship and love are self evident and that the recipient just automatically knows their status of relationship. This is bogus and pseudo thinking. It is also slothfulness. Expression of thought is necessary and mandatory in order to build a firm foundation of friendship and love. We should never be afraid to tell another person, especially our wives, just how much their love and friendship means to us. It's that simple. A friendship is mutual or you have no friendship at all.

A friendship is reciprocal or you have no friendship. Love and friendship is a two‑way street. Have you ever been lost and gone down a one‑way street the wrong way? You just did not feel right about it. Perhaps, you even got a ticket for the traffic infraction. A one‑way street can be lonely and even isolated. That's why we need each other in the journey of life.

"Friendship is always a SWEET responsibility..." (Kahil Gibran). "I want not a friend servility to comply with all my humors and fancies, and ever be obedient to my nod, for my shadow does that, but I want one (friend) who will follow me only in obedience to truth, and assist me impartially with her judgment" (Plutarch).

"Most of us in this world are very lonely; you who have any, who love you, cling to them and thank God for them" (William M. Thackeray). "True friendship ought never to conceal what it thinks" (St. Jerome). "A woman must eat a peck of salt with her friend before she knows him" (Miguel De Cervantes).

Being with Karen has been a short journey. We have been to the mountain top and to the valley below. The journey has been short because she is my friend. The tall oak trees along the way...the wild yellow flowers beside the path...the colorful smooth stones in the brisk water stream...the bright blue sky above our heads...the echo of hearing our voices across the cliff...the rabbits and squirrels in the meadows...children playing in the park, all of these have been a great adventure because she is my friend. Sometimes, it's in her voice. Other times, it's in her emerald green eyes eyes. It may even be in her sweet little walk or talk. As someone said, "It's never a long walk to a friend's house." Our journey together has been so short.

"True friendship is like sound health...the value of it is seldom known until it is lost" (Charles Colton).

Karen has deeply touched my heart…her words…her warmth…her tender soft touch.

"Every man should have a fair sized cemetery in which to bury the faults of his friends" (Henry Ward Beecher).

"The more we love our friends, the less we flatter them" (Jean B. Moliere). Flattery is phony. But true compliments and approval is very necessary for the growth of friendship. Remember: "The friend who praises another to his face and abuses him behind his back should be avoided. He is a jar of poison with milk on the top" (The Hitopadesa). "Reprove a friend in secret, but praise him before others" (Leonardo Da Vinci).

FRIENDSHIP

George Eliot once said, "If you go through the day without helping someone or cheering up a lonely heart or bringing sunshine to another human being, then count that day as worse than lost!" "All are not friends that speak us fair" (James Clarke).

"Ceremony and great professing renders friendship as much suspected as it does religion" (William Wycherly). "Get NOT your friends by bare compliments, but by giving them sensible tokens of your love. It is well worthwhile to learn how to win (friends). Force is of no use to make or preserve friends...Show them that you desire nothing more than their satisfaction; (be thankful) with all your soul for that friend who has made you a present of his own" (Socrates).

Someone said, "A friend not in need is a friend indeed!" Another said, "Friendship is honey...but don't eat it all." Victor Hugo once said, "The supreme happiness of life is the conviction of being loved...in spite of yourself".

"If everyone knew what one says about the other, there would not be four friends left in the world" (Blasé Pascal). "Anyone can sympathize with the sufferings of a friend, but it takes a very fine nature to sympathize with a friend's success" (Oscar Wilde).

Tommy Franks says, "Heaven awaits us and one day we will see all the friends we've made. Some of the friends were easily and freely made; hence, easy to love. Others were more difficult. The immature ones were easily offended and many times evaluated and scrutinized every word we said. Some misunderstood what we were about. This one thing I have learned in the game of life...An easily offended friend or person will never make a good friend. They will never be an asset, but will eventually become a liability. True friendship requires something from both parties... patience, full confidence, respect, and trust. If the trust and respect are not there, neither is the friendship. If friendship has to continuously be scrutinized, watched investigatively, nursed constantly, or analyzed, it is not truly genuine friendship. This type will cause you much anguish and disappointment. Love, respect, trust, and strength go hand‑in‑hand with friendship. I am so glad that I have been privileged with so many good friends. Friends should bring electricity and energy into our lives. We should feel relaxed and creative around them. We should feel excited with peace, warmth, and gentleness.

"Friendship based solely on gratitude is like a photograph; with time it fades" (Carmen Sylva).

"To find a friend one must close one eye...to keep him, two" (Norman Douglas).

"He who seeks a faultless friend remains friendless" (Turkish Proverb). Someone said, "He who holds his temper and holds his tongue holds two keys to friendship."

Mr. Arthur Schopenhauer once said, "Everybody's friend is nobody's." The person that always tries to please everybody usually pleases nobody. We must must learn that we cannot always please everyone. Our priorities in life should be: God first, spouse second, children third, and then other people and things. We love people, but we should not allow them to interfere with the above priorities.

"A friend is one who knows all about you and still loves you just the same" (Elbert Hubbard). Your spouse should be your best friend. He/She will know you through and through and hopefully still love you. Your spouse will know your strengths, your weaknesses, your goals, your shortcomings, your successes, your failures; yet, will still love you immensely. What a TREASURE and precious GIFT and Friend you have!

John Quincy Adams once wrote: "I want a warm and faithful friend, to cheer the adverse hour; who never to flatter will descend, nor bend the knee to power; a friend to chide me when I'm wrong, my inmost soul to see; and that my friendship prove as strong to my friend as my friend's to me." Take care of your friends and they will take care of you!

A FRIEND
By Gayle Franks Smith

A friend looks at me closely and sees me without my mask,
The mask I wear for all the world to see...
The one with a smile beautifully frozen on it...
The mask I wear for company.

A friend sees through the mask,
The protective mask that only reveals my best...
The mask that covers my flaws...
Imperfections, pain, and weakness.

The mask that is strong and courageous,
Can face any of life's disappointments...
Without blinking an eye...
The mask that is never sad and never cries.

A friend sees me without my mask,
And when my lovely, perfect mask is stripped away...
The face of the "real me" is exposed...
With its scars of grief; a friend is still a friend.

NOTE TO READERS: Gayle Franks Smith is one of my younger sisters. Many of her writings have been published over the years. I'm proud of her. She is an extraordinary writer!


LAST WORDS
By Tommy Franks

Albert Schweitzer once said, "Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It's the only thing." What is your example like to others? Example means: Model, standard, pattern, or prototype. Today, you and I will influence someone with our example. There have been times in my own life when I was not a good example at all. Those are the times that I had to go back and apologize for my actions.

Every person in our society is an influence to another person…good or bad. Many individuals are in jail today because they were led astray by a bad example. They did not have an excellent standard or a good moral model in which to pattern themselves. Consequently, they are now paying their debt to society because of the lack of a good example. Some of these societal unfortunates never knew their father or mother.

Hence, we have a responsibility to those around us, especially our children, to be the example to them that will produce good fruit and high standards.

Hopefully, this book has been a good influence on your life. Read it often. Share it with others. Remember who you are...An open book being read by others every single day!